Saturday, December 01, 2007

Dislikes

Went to O-B-S camp as part of my induction for work last week. Had some muscle aches den. Sometimes quite shiok to have muscle aches. It means you have worked out quite a few muscle groups that you normally don't. The camp not very siong as I would anticipate to be. haha. I mean, was expecting some height challenging or scary stunts that we have to do but not many leh. Maybe cos its only 2 days camp and it has to cater to the various age groups bah. But still an experience lar since never stay at O-B-S b4 mah.



Over the past many years of group activities, I realise that I don't like certain ppl. I mean I am sure some ppl don't realli like me as well but certainly I am entitled to my personal preferences for disliking ppl too?

I don't like egoistic people. Be it guy or girl. A person can exude confidence, its totally fine. But if she tries to command without even bothering to listen to others, or even worse, listens and put him/her down right on the spot without even considering the option suggested, that kind of behaviour totally gains no respect from me.


But I also realise that actuali the more u dislike a person, the more u shld try to talk to her. Talk to her more on other stuff can elicit the other good sides of her personality to you. Den slowly u will grow to like her all over again. 1 more fren is beta than 1 more enemy as it says. It works sometimes. Familiarity breeds liking....indeed.

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